Linda Goldman, Fellow in Thanatology, author, Children Also Grieve: Talking About Death and Healing and Great Answers to Difficult Questions About Death: What Children Need to Know

Resources

www.childrensgrief.net
Discussing Death With a Toddler

Books for Babies and Toddlers That Cover Challenging Life Experiences

ADEC is the Association for Death Education and Counseling and is an organization that can help locate appropriate counseling.
Also, calling a local hospice organization would be helpful in finding a grief counselor